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### Description

When dialog module needs to send keep-alive to caller and/or called it doens't check if the ip address and port of the dialog is the current listening ip/port. If you have two distinct kamailio instances sharing a single dialog database, both instances are sending the OPTIONS and not just the one which handled the call at setup time.

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### Troubleshooting

#### Reproduction

Start two instance with a shared dialog database and db_mode set to 1 (realtime), set property ka-src for every dialog in kamailio cfg. Setup a long call and restart the instance not involved in the call. You should see it starting to send OPTIONS.

### Possible Solutions In dlg_send_ka, if the ip/port stored in the dialog db is not present in the listening ip/port set, skip the check.

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### Additional Information

* **Kamailio Version** - output of `kamailio -v`

``` version: kamailio 5.5.2 (x86_64/linux) 55e232 flags: USE_TCP, USE_TLS, USE_SCTP, TLS_HOOKS, USE_RAW_SOCKS, DISABLE_NAGLE, USE_MCAST, DNS_IP_HACK, SHM_MMAP, PKG_MALLOC, Q_MALLOC, F_MALLOC, TLSF_MALLOC, DBG_SR_MEMORY, USE_FUTEX, FAST_LOCK-ADAPTIVE_WAIT, USE_DNS_CACHE, USE_DNS_FAILOVER, USE_NAPTR, USE_DST_BLOCKLIST, HAVE_RESOLV_RES ADAPTIVE_WAIT_LOOPS 1024, MAX_RECV_BUFFER_SIZE 262144, MAX_URI_SIZE 1024, BUF_SIZE 65535, DEFAULT PKG_SIZE 8MB poll method support: poll, epoll_lt, epoll_et, sigio_rt, select. id: 55e232 compiled on 14:20:31 Aug 25 2021 with gcc 4.8.5 ```

* **Operating System**: Centos 7 <!-- Details about the operating system, the type: Linux (e.g.,: Debian 8.4, Ubuntu 16.04, CentOS 7.1, ...), MacOS, xBSD, Solaris, ...; Kernel details (output of `lsb_release -a` and `uname -a`) -->